Izzy’s story

Izzy was diagnosed with autism at the very young age of two and a half. Her mum Paula noticed some signs when she was just one year old and after reading a book about autism, Paula was very sure that her daughter was presenting with some signs of autism and took her to a doctor.

Once Izzy had been diagnosed, the paediatrician told Paula that she was ‘the worst child in Essex’ – words that were gut wrenching and have stayed with her since. Although she does still need a lot of support, Izzy is now a happy 25-year-old. She has selective mutism and experiences very challenging difficulties when feeling anxious.

She has a love of all things Disney and very much enjoys art and sewing. Reflecting on her daughter’s childhood, Paula shares that the paediatrician had also told her that Izzy had one of the most ‘severe forms of autism.’

Paula said:

“I had to learn to understand autism myself and how I could support my daughter. I worked to educate myself on the best ways to help her and worked through a therapy programme with her. It was an extremely difficult and stressful time.”

Izzy began to attend a nursery at the age of four and a half and then went on to attend a school and college in Chelmsford with SEN (special educational needs) provision.

Once Izzy left college at 21, her parents began looking for somewhere that could continue to help support Izzy. As an adult, Izzy does display behaviour that often appears aggressive and that along with her difficulty in communicating can prove very difficult for those around her if they do not understand her. It was important to her parents that they could find somewhere that would understand autism and take the time to work with and understand Izzy. This is when they found Autism Anglia.

Based in Colchester, the Autism Anglia Jigsaw Centre is a specialist day centre for adults with an autism diagnosis. The centre provides activities to support wellbeing, day to day living and much more. The expert team at Autism Anglia worked with Paula to create a gradual transition for Izzy.

Izzy settled into the Jigsaw Centre quicker than expected.

Paula said:

“They really listened to what Izzy was like and took the time to ensure she was comfortable there. Nothing is too much trouble; they are incredibly professional, and they understand my child. It’s the one place she can go to independently from us or her PA and we know we don’t have to worry about her, she loves going in.

They have been incredibly supportive and have gone above and beyond to ensure we are all ok. They have been a lifeline to us, particularly in lockdown. Without them we would have been severely impacted.”